Unexpected encounters n strange conclusions

Okay so after years of listening from friends that I should start putting my thoughts or rather nonsense blabbering in words, I finally found my mojo.

I suppose in all true honesty, I should dedicate my first blog to this person who truly inspired me to start blogging because till now I never got enough motivation to blog, even though I have met loads of inspirational people or whom I found totally devilishly handsome to do anything for!

Hey ho…here I am. 

So how it all started:

We got introduced through parents and somehow the moment I saw his first photo, I thought I have fallen in love and it was with his smile! Further when I heard about his brief profile from mom (my focus was on his hobbies then his academics or career. I have met/known loads of similar or more academically read and successful career wise, but must say nothing to be enticed about), I thought this is exactly I ever wanted my dream guy to be (okay I agree I am being a bit of drama queen here!). Oh and did I tell you, I found a sort of resemblance of Mr. Raghuram Rajan (RBI governor of India) in him whom I always find insanely handsome☺️.

Note: when my friends and family heard the above, they completely disagree with my perception of him and tells me I am mad and weird more then they actually thought I am. Duhh..

Anyway we never had much conversations or messages exchange really or if ever we spoke, it was very brief which happened once in few weeks time with long awkward pauses. Guess 2 separate continents with 1000s of miles distance and different timezone or may be we both had our ego issues or atleast I had for not contacting him much if he can't be bothered either. Now someone who knows me even a little bit can't believe that a person like me can have pauses in conversations, as I have been told I have relentless energy to ramble about anything and everything!! 

How this person became an inspiration:

So to cut the long story short, the whole thing died between us very quickly for no or bare minimum contact in less then month and a half time. 

But since I was the one who was more intrigued with him (which is obvious in this case), I started jotting in my head what was it that really intrigued me about him because as such I had no idea what he is like as a person (because I never met him in person).

So here is the list:

His smile ( oh man I loved it!)

His hobbies
He is grounded nature wise

He is an outgoing person and not a total nerd, have aspirations to do things beyond just work life.

Ps: I am sure if this person would ever get around to read my blog, he will be smirking and calling me what an idiot girl she was. But thank you Mr Anonymous for briefly appearing in my life and I guess no doubt, you are the best till date happened to me ( or rather best till the time of writing this blog as who knows what lies in future ahead!). 

So after making that list, instead of despising him for his behaviour (the reason for using this strong word here is do not say things that you don't mean or can't deliver especially when given several opportunities to say your mind out) , I found him a great source of inspiration to finally start penning down my thoughts instead of leaving it all in my head or just talking about it. Shit happens in life but I suppose it is on you how you take those encounters as and for this time, I definitely take it the best encounter with my heart pumping with all sorts of positive things ( that I also learnt from him and his positive attributes) to do that I only thought about earlier. 

Anyway, I know this blog isn't the interesting kind at all but for me a good start to write more in the future !